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As wedding photographer, your clients are consumers – not businesses or corporations – so they don’t make decisions the same way that corporations do.

Corporations make decisions based on ROI – Return on Investment.

They sit in their offices and ask themselves questions like, ‘How much return will I receive if I invest some money in more equipment? If I build a new factory? If I hire a new employee?’


Consumers, on the other hand, make decisions based on what I like to call ROH or ‘Return on Happiness.’


As a consumer, I don’t walk into a J.Crew to buy a dress because I will receive a bigger financial return on my investment than if I bought a dress elsewhere.

I buy the dress from J.Crew because I believe that it will make me HAPPIER than other dresses.


Are they quality? YES.

Do they look fantastic? YEP.

Are there other less expensive dresses in the world that will look just as nice?




When I shop at J.Crew, I have a picture in my head of what will make me happy.


Through their branding, marketing, and email campaigns, J.Crew has inserted themselves into my ‘picture of happiness’.

They have helped me feel that their clothes are the solution.

J.Crew is an example of an effective marketing machine (as least as it applies to me), and I believe this to be true:


Truly effective marketing is when your client’s picture of happiness and your services intersect.


Guess what? As a wedding or portrait photographer, your clients are consumers, and consumers have pictures of happiness in their heads that they are trying to fulfill with IDEAL VENDORS.

Your goal, then, is to actively insert your services into your clients’ pictures of happiness.

But you don’t want to intersect with just any picture of happiness out there.

Your ultimate WIN is for your business to fulfill your IDEAL CLIENT’S picture of happiness.


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You do this through your website, your blog, your images, your social media feeds, and your customer service by not only connecting with your target audience on their likes and dislikes, but by connecting with them on their deeper values.

You should post images on your Instagram feed that your ideal clients will absolutely love (and will definitely turn OFF not-so-ideal clients).

But let’s take it a step farther.


You want your ideal clients to believe that you not only understand their likes, but that you understand their values.


You do this by writing captions for your Instagram posts that speak to value statements instead of just surface qualities.

Instead of writing:

“I love this beach ceremony from this beautiful destination wedding.”

Think about a caption that says:

“Gorgeous beach + 10 friends + marrying the man of your dreams in Costa Rica = PERFECTION.”

This second caption speaks to intimacy and romance and adventure which might be strong values of your ideal client.

Find as many ways as you can to connect with your ideal clients on their values instead of just superficial characteristics through well-crafted copy, focused imagery, and thoughtful content.


You’ll quickly find that you’ll be intersecting with your ideal clients on the right levels.


In this way, you will begin to realize profitable returns on your marketing investments, because your ideal clients will begin realizing returns on their investments in happiness by hiring YOU.


One last note that I must mention:

Master marketers go even farther than this.

They are the ones that don’t just insert themselves into the pictures of happiness that their customers have created.


Master marketers are ones that are actively creating the pictures of happiness FOR them.


These are the trendsetters and the dreamers.

Someday, when I grow up, I want that to be me.

It isn’t me yet, but I still have some years left in my photographer self to make it happen.




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We're Jeff & Erin

We’re Jeff and Erin Youngren – and it’s our mission to help you thrive not just as a wedding photographer, but as a business owner. It’s time to set aside the stress and comparison of a hustle mindset, and build a life-giving business instead.

We met in college, got married, and started corporate jobs before we discovered (and fell in love with) wedding photography. But like many creative entrepreneurs, we were booking anything we could, strapped to our laptops and living dangerously close to burnout.

So we dug in and learned how to build a thriving business that supports our dream life – instead of a joyless business that runs a stressed-out life.

Today, we photograph only 10 Dreamie weddings per year, but we also run two other wedding brands plus a commercial studio in San Diego, CA. And we do it by only working the hours that fit into our life. The other hours? We spend those living a joyful life raising our two beautiful sons, James and Samuel.


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